Primas, Primos, and Piñatas

We didn’t know then that these were times in our lives when we were fully alive.

Panama’s birthday a few days ago had me thinking of the birthday parties of my childhood in Panama when primas, primos, tías, and tíos were the cast of characters in my life. So I spent the afternoon searching for that one gorgeous photo of my little brother’s birthday party in the carport of tía Connie and tío Stanley’s house. I found it and here it is! It inspired me to write a birthday poem. These are my memories and my cousins’ memories.

Come play with me.

 
Marlena Maduro Baraf family
 

Birthday Poem:

We were
cowboys
                         baseballers
  and ballerinas

I remember a burro with a  Mexican haT
           his belly F U L L of treasures

Fathers stood guard by the broomSTICK
so no kids got their heads
                     knocked off

Maids raced
to G R A B candies
for their younger charges 
when the belly B U R S T 
two-in-a-box 
Adams Chiclets and
                        Lily hard candy
                                    wrapped in 
                                                cellophane

It was always too hot

We were frightened of the CLOWN

if we were old enough we’d hide our fear
If we were little we’d                                                 run
                            to sTand by the skirt of an adult.

We sucked on amber sugar babies in the shape 
                    of a horse 
or a soldier

Earlier that week we watched tía Mimí pour the 
                                                             boiling
molten sugar
into the cast iron molds

We stumbled blindfolded 
                                    with a pin
                                                on a tail
direction wrong the in

My usual was 
            one
            two
            three
                        Nehi grape sodas
My tongue was painted PURPle for days

Musical chairs allowed us to be wild 
            slamming 
                      into chairs
                                    when the music 
STOPPED.

We sang the birthday song
to tía Lois’   p   l   a   n   c  h   a  cake 
                                     with 7-minute icing

We took home a piece of cake for our
younger siblings 
            that never made it 
home.


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